THW Have One Nite Stand

This case set in the New York City, where every body came from every where, gathers in this center spot of universe. The chance for each of these people to meet again is like 1 to 9889. The chance to realize that they’ve met before, when they actually met one more time, like 1 to 98899. High mobility of individual activity is countless speed. Live in NYC is about how you can manage every second of your precious time useful (include your private time like sleep, bathing, eating, or sex). There’s 24/7 demand of working hour, to be survive you gotta fulfill this requirement. Most of it cost them a healthy private basic needs fulfillment. They often neglecting their self pleasure as human being, they failed to keep social relationship even with their family because of this demand. So if you talking about marriage or serious commitment, it sound so impossible in this case. But however, the subject of this debate is human being. When we talking about human being, we definitely can’t get rid sex in this conversation. Despite the right or wrong of free sex, or betraying the holly concept of marriage, or fornication, or sin, this supposed to be nothing to do with any of it.

It’s 100 percent pure biological needs.

It’s obviously fine when individual who live in NYC, have short brief anonym one night stand relation. As long as no pressure, and both part have same mutual perception agreed with any consequences, and do it in responsible way, then it will be fun-fine activity. .

The urgency to bring this idea, because it’s not only happened in NYC.

People in other part of world did so. But the thing is, the situation sometimes not even precisely the same. If people in NYC unintentionally pick random guy into one night, because they don’t have much time to be in a real relationship, the other people in other continent did it because of curiosity. They try to imitate this kind of style although they had tons of time and already into someone; just because they want to know how does it feel. This is what so called as cheating, and it’s unacceptable in any circumstance and there’s no way to justify this behavior (this is what normative value, and the society uphold it as common sense).

But we as proposition don’t think curiosity as basic reason why people have one night stand is completely wrong. As a matter of fact we believe its okay to do so.

We believe it’s simply not wise when we blame someone’s passion to understand things, even if it’s about sex (or one night stands). We already allow parents to give sex education to their children ever since they asked about it (how come baby brother appear in our family, or why every month mommy got pissed? what is period? why dad has beard and mom hasn’t? why every ten o’clock mommy and daddy locked their bedroom?). We think it’s good to give the understanding to your children, answer to their curiosity, because we hope they will have provisions as basic consideration, basic knowledge to do rational calculation when they ready to have sex. So curiosity simply can’t be blamed.

Now we are agree on curiosity part, aren’t we? Now let’s talk about method

The proposition of sex curiosity not only valid for children, it’s valid for everyone, in any age, and it’s valid for lifetime. For the children, verbal explanation might enough, depends on who’s talking, with what method (you can use story book as tools and pick 9 o’clock in the evening as your timing, prince and princess as your subject, once upon a time as opening line of your bedtime story) and that’s it, they won’t bother you for next couple of years. It’s enough for children but don’t even think it’s cool for adult. They need more to satisfy this curiosity. Preaching in biology class or AIDS seminar is so 90’s, visual and sound effect or electronic devices are not enough, they need more than just demonstration, they need experimental research, observation is like quantifying method, and it’s still questionable. They have to try it, right there; with artificial instrument perhaps (they could invent it thou). While time goes by, curiosity never die; in fact Its sky rocketing. The need of curiosity is not only in form of understanding, now it turns to be a self experience satisfaction. People not only need to know about sex, they need to experience it. And the level is going advance, they don’t need to have sex only with their couple, they need to have sex with random people. That’s why they start to looking for one night stand. Bottom line is that curiosity is good. Because of this curiosity, level of knowledge is increasing; people start to make a legitimate research of this behavior and patent it to be a guide book (just ask sociologist, or psychologist, or Dave Barry)

You see, have one night stand is good thing to do. it doesn’t mean to be irresponsible, or legalizing free sex, you still can forsake them if you like (that’s immature dude,). We just want to emphasize there’s nothing wrong with one night stand as long as they did it in responsible way.